The START

If you had told me when I was a teenager that I’d be introducing myself today as a professional psychic and energy healer, I would have laughed, looked over my shoulder to see if you were talking to someone else, and then politely asked if you needed directions.

Back then, I was the definition of a shy, insecure, people-pleaser . A product of growing up bullied and manipulated by a narcissistic mother. I placed this persona over me for protection. Hide, do her bidding for a peaceful life, yet still constantly judged and found lacking. Even as my insides cried with loneliness and unhappiness. Any iota of individuality or personality that didn’t agree with her view of the world was nipped in the bud and dismissed. Boundaries? I thought those were just things you painted on the road.

But life has a funny way of nudging us—sometimes gently, sometimes like a cosmic shove off a cliff—toward who we’re meant to be. For me, that shove was realizing that constantly living for others left me drained, disconnected, and far away from my true self.

Step by step (and often stumble by stumble), and moving far, far, away, I began tuning into my own energy. I learned to listen to the whispers of my intuition instead of the noise of external expectations. Over (a long) time, that inner whisper became a guiding voice—leading me not only to heal my own wounds, but to discover my gift for helping others heal theirs.

Today, I work as a psychic medium and energy healer. Do I have it all figured out? Absolutely not. This is a lifelong journey, and I’m still very much a student of it. But what I do know is this: if someone like me—once terrified of saying “no,” of disappointing others, of taking up space or speaking her truth—can find her highest self, then so can you.

Here’s the unexpected twist in my journey: after living far, far, away for 22 years, life has brought me back to Canada—and back into close orbit with my mother. My beloved dad, who was always the buffer between us, passed away two years ago. Now, I find myself in a caretaker role I never exactly signed up for. Apparently, the universe decided I was ready for the advanced-level boundary training course, and let’s just say… I’m learning quickly, and sometimes painfully.

Through this blog, I’ll be sharing pieces of my journey: the insights, the funny missteps, the cosmic lessons, and the ways energy and your own divine team can help you reconnect with your own truth. Think of it as a mix of inspiration, soul-work, and the occasional laugh at the human messiness we all share.

So here’s to boundaries, breakthroughs, and becoming more of who we really are. I’m glad you’re here with me.